Hi guys. So I know Sunday’s post by me was a little sad and upsetting but today I want to talk about my new normal. I want to talk about the steps I’m going to take to make myself and the world around me better. I know it’s not easy and nothing in this world is ever really easy so hopefully I can influence even one person! Hope you all have a wonderful weekend.


  • BE KIND: I’m the first person to admit I’m not always kind and I’ve realized lately that the way I act influences others around me. As part of my new normal I will strive to be kind to everyone even when I don’t want to be.
  • TRY TO UNDERSTAND: We live in a world where not everyone understands or even wants to understand the struggle of the people around them. If the viewpoint is different or the struggle is foreign then that is enough to shut some people down. I’m not saying I’ll succeed but I’m going to try and understand the struggle and feelings of those around me.
  • LEARN TO WALK AWAY: This is the hardest thing for me personally. I’ve never been one to walk away from a fight or from someone hurting but, I’m learning now that sometimes not everyone wants the help you have to offer and not every fight is worth fighting. Sometimes you have to walk away.

I know it’s another serious post but I honestly hope this helps someone. Don’t be afraid to make a new normal. As always love Bennita’s House.

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